Dating someone 10 years younger than you
Even some 30-something guys I knew didn't seem ready.But as I observed how he interacted with people at church and did his job, my fears were alleviated.She and Paul married anyway, and over time the difference in maturity dissipated. While I don't think it's important to adhere to an arbitrary formula when considering age in a potential relationship (interestingly, when I met Kevin our age difference was exactly this ratio), I think it can be a good rule of thumb to help you consider if your relationship is appropriate.
"My biggest question was, 'Why was she still single? "But that worry didn't stop me from getting to know her.
If he had still been a "college kid," I might have had a hard time feeling like we were equals.
And while the same life stage can seem to erase an age difference, Willy Wooten, a licensed marriage and family therapist, who has been counseling for over 30 years, encourages couples to think ahead.
"Things may be good now, but think 10 years down the road," he says. " Wooten's own father was 17 years older than his mother.
"My dad always loved sports, but he was not physically able to engage with me in sports," he says. If you hit it off because you both love rock climbing, consider if that's something that will be part of your relationship for years to come." 3. Another concern Leah had was whether she could submit to Travis as a spiritual leader.